{"id":16716,"date":"2020-01-23T07:44:51","date_gmt":"2020-01-23T06:44:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/?p=16716"},"modified":"2020-01-23T07:44:51","modified_gmt":"2020-01-23T06:44:51","slug":"sexological-bodywork","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/sexological-bodywork\/","title":{"rendered":"Sexological Bodywork: Healing from the Inside Out"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As women, we face a lot of confusion and shame around sex. While some of us may not have experienced direct trauma, we live in a society that fosters a disconnection between our bodies and our intimate selves. This repression can create a detachment between us and our vaginas. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This manifests as numbing, shame, and a lack of clarity around our needs. Or an inability as to how to communicate these needs. It\u2019s far too common for women to \u201cdissasociate\u201d during sex, and let\u2019s face it- not enough of us are having regular orgasms. Orgasms are medicine, people. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They have the ability to create mind-bending, earth-shattering, esoteric experiences. Unfortunately, many women are missing out on the healing capacity of sex (with yourself or someone else), because they check out of their bodies during the act.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While this is a systemic issue crossing cultures and borders, healing must still happen on an individual level. So how do we drop back into our bodies? How do we start having orgasms that bring us to tears? How do we connect with our bodies in such a profound way that a single encounter could heal a lifetime of suppression? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It starts with self-care.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the world of self-care, our options are endless. In our arsenal of tools, we rotate acupuncture, Yoga, facials, bodywork, massage, and so much more.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When we think of massage, we typically assume our backs, necks, maybe our feet. This focus on certain body parts comes at the expense of neglecting other ones. Thanks to social taboos and conventional ideas, we forget that we are holistic, aka whole, beings with a lot more to us than a back and a few limbs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are a growing number of trends in the world of wellness-centered around healing whatever we have stored in our vaginas- physically, emotionally, and energetically. We\u2019re seeing yoni eggs, vaginal steaming, crystal wands, and now- sexological bodywork. What? That\u2019s right.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In fact, sexological bodywork is no new trend. It was developed by <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/easb.eu\/info\/what-is-sexological-bodywork\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Dr. Josef Kramer<\/a><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in the 1980&#8217;s as a reaction to the AIDS epidemic, as a tool for homosexual men to connect with their sex lives amidst growing panic and loss. It utilizes methods of <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/religion\/religions\/taoism\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Taoism<\/a> <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and tantric bodywork, with a later expansion as a tool in women\u2019s sexual liberation movements.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sexological bodywork is just what it sounds like. Bodywork, a broad term for various methods of therapeutic healing, is used by practitioners to give clients a space to heal from injuries, chronic pain, anxiety, and any other number of ailments. People who get bodywork treatments develop a deeper connection with their physical form. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sexological bodywork creates that connection between people and their reproductive organs and sexual selves.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While for many, the idea of a stranger touching their genitals raises a major red flag, the intention of practitioners is to provide healing in an area that is so often neglected. During a session, especially the first few, a practitioner may not even touch a client physically, or they may begin with a gentle touch over their clothes. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sexological bodyworkers use a number of techniques to create a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/therapy-types\/somatic-therapy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">somatic<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0experience- including breathwork, sensual massage, masturbation coaching, and the breaking down of scar tissue. It\u2019s important to note that as it\u2019s said in many forms of therapeutic touch- therapists meet their clients where they\u2019re at. That means only going to a place in the session where a client will be able to integrate their experiences in a constructive manner, so as not to shock them.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The tissue in our vaginas is similar to that of the inside of our mouths. It is soft, sensitive, and malleable. Just as with the rest of our bodies, this tissue is incredibly intelligent. It holds stories, memories, and emotions. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes this holding on can create excessive tension that leads to a feeling of being frozen, or inability to enjoy one\u2019s sexuality. Developing a relationship with these tissues outside of sex and birth gives people the opportunity to feel more alive, and like a more integrated human overall. Sexological bodywork can help to integrate these experiences so that you feel like your vagina is yours again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So who might benefit from sexological bodywork? The answer is everyone. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you have genitals, there is always an opportunity to connect with them on a deeper level, no matter what your story is. Specifically, the people who often seek out this kind of treatment are women in the prenatal time as a way to connect with their birth canal, release and prepare for the journey of birth. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is also incredibly beneficial postpartum, especially if there have been any pelvic floor injuries, such as prolapse, or tearing. It can help people who have experienced sexual trauma, whether directly, or as a result of living in a society where it is rampant. Some people seek sexological bodywork to help them resolve shame they may hold, and get rid of energy that isn\u2019t theirs. Others may just want to connect with themselves on a deeper level, to find greater pleasure in their sex lives, or connect deeper with their partners.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Although people seek out sexological bodywork for a variety of reasons, the results are ubiquitous. This profound modality gives people the opportunity to feel more embodied. To connect with themselves in a way that we don\u2019t often get an opportunity to. It gives them a way to integrate sex into their daily lives, so that they can feel better overall.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> And don\u2019t forget- more orgasms. Now that\u2019s a self-care tool we all need.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As women, we face a lot of confusion and shame around sex. 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