{"id":17734,"date":"2020-06-19T14:24:57","date_gmt":"2020-06-19T12:24:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/?p=17734"},"modified":"2020-06-19T14:24:57","modified_gmt":"2020-06-19T12:24:57","slug":"the-holy-grail-blended-orgasms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/the-holy-grail-blended-orgasms\/","title":{"rendered":"The Holy Grail: Blended Orgasms"},"content":{"rendered":"

The C and the G.<\/span><\/p>\n

Spots that is.<\/span><\/p>\n

C spot and G spot.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

When stimulated simultaneously this tantalizing combination is often called a \u201cblended orgasm\u201d. Aka, the holy grail of orgasms.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

First off, I\u2019d like to debunk the holy grail sentiment. For some blended orgasms may be just that, but we all have different needs, desires, and responses to different kinds of stimulation. The holy grail of orgasms is any kind that takes you above and beyond. That allows you to feel the wide depths of pleasure you\u2019re capable of.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s a holy grail.<\/span><\/p>\n

Having said that, there\u2019s nothing quite like the feeling of when you (or someone else) hits the spot juuust right, and then they hit another spot. And that combination gets you spiraling in a swirl of ecstasy.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

So let\u2019s talk about blended orgasms. What exactly does that mean? How can I talk to my partner about having them? And most importantly – how on earth do I have one?<\/span><\/p>\n

One Size Does Not Fit All<\/b><\/p>\n

First things first – there are different kinds of blended orgasms.<\/span><\/p>\n

While for the most part, people have similar erogenous zones, we\u2019re all different, and we all have our quirks and preferences.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

When figuring out what kind of blended orgasms you want to explore, think about what areas of your body you find the most pleasurable when stimulated.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The most commonly referenced blended orgasm is the <\/span>clitoris<\/a><\/span>\u00a0and <\/span>G spot<\/span>. When you move further up the vagina, you can stimulate the A spot, and even the cervix.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Again, blended orgasms doesn\u2019t just have to mean vaginal penteration and clitorial stimulation. People orgasm from having their nipples rubbed while being penetrated. Or their clitoris and anal penetration. Or no penetration at all, with multiple kinds of external stimulation.<\/span><\/p>\n

You get the picture.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

To Each Their Own<\/b><\/p>\n

We\u2019re all about redefining sexual standards, so from here on out, let\u2019s say that a blended orgasm can simply mean climax, or reaching a heightened sexual state, from stimulating multiple areas of the body simultaneously.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

On that note. There\u2019s no hierarchy of orgasms. While one kind may feel better than another to you, ranking orgasms is problematic and unnecessary. This is your sex life, find what works best for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Keep in mind that if while exploring blended orgasms, it feels too intense for you, there\u2019s nothing wrong with you. It\u2019s ok for something to simply not feel good. If you are experiencing pain, that may be something to explore with a professional, like a <\/span>sexological bodyworker<\/a><\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

What Does it Feel Like?<\/b><\/p>\n

For one, it\u2019s going to feel different for everyone.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Some people experience a quick rise and fall, like with a clitoral orgasm. Others may have a sense of all over euphoria. You may feel a deep rumble starting in your pelvis that ripples out to the bottom of your toes and the ends of your hair. Yum.<\/span><\/p>\n

It also entirely depends on what areas of your body are being stimulated, and how you\u2019re feeling in your body overall on any given day.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Do it Yourself<\/b><\/p>\n

How you \u201cdo it\u201d depends on just what kind of orgasm you\u2019re going for.<\/span><\/p>\n

It can be helpful to start off with a position or trick that you know gets you off, and before you\u2019re too close to going over the orgasm edge, incorporate something new into it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re used to cumming from laying on your back and rubbing your clit, great, try that. Once you get into a deeper state of arousal, try inserting a penis, toy, finger, etc, and stimulating different areas of your vagina. This will give your mind the alert, that \u201chey, maybe there are different ways to orgasm.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The more you practice this, the more you\u2019ll feel the unique sensations coming from different parts of your body, and what those feel like when they come together.<\/span><\/p>\n

Get Creative<\/b><\/p>\n

Whether you\u2019re having solo sex, or with a partner, blended orgasms is an awesome time to incorporate any toys you may have on hand (or get a new one).\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Strap ons and handheld dildos, vibrators, handheld devices, cock rings, butt plugs – you name it!<\/span><\/p>\n

Toys are an awesome way to stimulate multiple areas of the body without the risk of hand cramping. They also allow you to explore saucy new positions, while keeping the sensation going on parts you want to keep stimulating.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Speaking of positions, here are some blended orgasm wow-a-wee ones to try.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n