{"id":18608,"date":"2021-01-01T08:53:17","date_gmt":"2021-01-01T07:53:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/?p=18608"},"modified":"2020-12-28T08:57:38","modified_gmt":"2020-12-28T07:57:38","slug":"sex-games","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/sex-games\/","title":{"rendered":"Everyone\u2019s a Winner with These Sex Games"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re here, you\u2019re either well versed in the world of sexual experimentation, or are at least curious about broadening your horizons.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your sex life has the opportunity to provide healing, connection, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/sex-as-art\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">unlock creative potential<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, feel deep pleasure, and of course &#8211; have fun!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You deserve to have an incredibly fulfilling sex life, one that fuels your fire, and sparks your flame.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Exploring the world of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/creatively-kinky-an-introduction\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">kink<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/exhibit-x-so-youre-an-exhibitionist\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">exhibitionism<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/orgasmic-meditation\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">orgasmic mediation<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/threesomes-and-moresomes\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">threesomes<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, will all help you push the boundaries of your sex life.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another way to bring some extra fun into the bedroom (or outside of it) is with sex games.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sex games are a fun way to break down boundaries and insecurities you may have with yourself or your partner, and bring in a spirit of inspiration, liveliness, playfulness, and break up any ruts or staleness in your sex life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take these games for a spin, and watch your sex life <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">come<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> alive!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Show and Tell (But Don\u2019t Touch)<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In this very grown-up version of the grade school classic, there is plenty of room for imagination.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are the basics of this one: You will show &#8211; and maybe tell &#8211; in front of your partner, but they aren\u2019t allowed to touch you &#8211; and maybe themselves either &#8211; until you give them the magic word. \u201cNow\u201d works great as this magic word.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can take this as far as you want. Plop your partner down in the \u201caudience\u201d, and you take center stage, which is probably your bed, but who knows.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Get dressed up to dress down. You can put on music that really makes you feel yourself, do some sexy dancing and a striptease for your sweetie. Then depending on your comfort levels, have them watch you pleasure yourself.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tease and entice them, getting closer and closer. You can slowly let them feel the warmth of your breath as you get closer to saying the magic word.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They\u2019ll be ready to explode (literally) by the time you whisper that magical three-letter word.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>The Magic Square<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This one takes a lot of communication, both non-verbal and verbal.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You and your partner will decide on one small area of yours or their body to focus on at a time. You can also discuss what sort of sensations like tingly, tickling, spiky, you do or don\u2019t want to experience.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When having this conversation, feel free to make it sexy and enticing. Words are sexy, make it part of your \u201cforeplay\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The receiver will then be blindfolded, and with a timer set, the giver will touch only within the designated \u201cmagic square\u201d for the duration of the timer. We suggest having this magic square be outside of the genitals, and in a seemingly more inconspicuous place like the belly, thigh, or decolletage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This game allows you to both be present in the moment and the sensation of giving or receiving, without any pressure to speed things up.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The receiver can actively communicate what they do and don\u2019t like, whether that be with full words and sentences, or simple moans and grunts. The giver can strive to pick up on their partner\u2019s non-verbal cues, tuning in to the subtleties of their pleasure while in a state of giving.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can take turns as many times as you want, switching between giver and receiver, and exploring new areas and sensations.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Guess This Object<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is somewhat similar to the last game in terms of focusing on tactile sensations, but with a new twist.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">First off, of course, discuss beforehand if any area of the body or sensation is off-limits.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then the receiver will get comfy and yep you guessed it &#8211; blindfolded &#8211; while the giver rummages around the house for a few objects.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When the receiver is ready, the giver will then move the object in whatever motion seems enticing on the receiver\u2019s body.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The receiver then tries to guess what the object is.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Get creative here, reach into the fridge, your garden (careful of allergies), your sex toy box, office supplies, really anything here as long as it\u2019s deemed physically safe and comfortable by the receiver.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>A Lover\u2019s Lens<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Always wanted to serve as someone\u2019s creative muse? Well here\u2019s your chance.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether or not you and your partner feel like you have any creative skills, now is the chance for you to chant <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cDraw me like one of your French girls!\u201d <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a la Titanic.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Set a sexy scene with draperies, flowers, crystals, grapes, go all out in luxury, or keep it simple in nature.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now strike a pose as your partner captures your beauty through their eyes. This doesn\u2019t just have to be with drawing of course. They can watercolour, use pens, clay, collage, even make a sculpture from bits and bobs they find around the house.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keep in mind this isn\u2019t about making it look exactly like the muse, but giving the partner a chance to capture their essence &#8211; through a lover\u2019s lens.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While this may not seem like a sex game, there\u2019s plenty of room to add an x rated twist into the mix. Do this activity sans clothes, have them create art around your most ahem *luscious* parts. Being seen in this way by a lover opens up the floor for a wild ride.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Drop any self-consciousness you have around your creative abilities, this is about seeing and honoring the muse\u2019s beauty and energy.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Remember, when it comes to sex games, there are only winners, no losers. So let this guide serve as inspiration to make up your own games by yourself, or with a partner. Game on!<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you\u2019re here, you\u2019re either well versed in the world of sexual experimentation, or are at least curious about broadening your horizons. 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