{"id":19599,"date":"2021-06-21T10:15:00","date_gmt":"2021-06-21T08:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/?p=19599"},"modified":"2021-06-17T08:55:05","modified_gmt":"2021-06-17T06:55:05","slug":"the-different-types-of-sexuality","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/the-different-types-of-sexuality\/","title":{"rendered":"The Different Types of Sexuality"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Hop on social media or Reddit and you will find a world of different types and labels around sexuality. It\u2019s beautiful that language can evolve and help not only provide validation for how people experience their sexuality and romantic feelings but for them to shape communities and education around that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That being said, if you\u2019re questioning your sexuality or are trying to understand it as an ally and caring human, it can be difficult to decipher just what all these labels mean. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Before we dive in, it\u2019s worth mentioning that while for the most part, these identities have agreed-upon definitions, they can change over time and even from person to person. So if you\u2019re ever unsure in the context of a conversation, ask for clarification! People want to be seen, heard, and validated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To understand a lot of these definitions, you do need to have a clear understanding of the nuances of gender. You can learn more about being non-binary<\/a>, intersex<\/a>, and reproductive healthcare outside of the gender binary<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now let\u2019s get down to it and learn all about the world of sexual orientation!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Allosexual<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Allosexual is a term used to define people who DO experience sexual attraction and is used to differentiate from people who are a-sexual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This doesn\u2019t refer to what gender someone is attracted to, rather the fact that they experience sexual attraction in the first place. People who are allosexual can also be gay, bisexual, straight, lesbian, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Androsexual<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

People who are androsexual, experience sexual feelings towards masculinity in general. Androsexual people may be attracted to cis men, as well as trans men, males, or masculinity as a whole.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Asexual<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

People who are asexual experience little or no interest in sexual activity. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

These people may still engage in sex because they may like it, want to appease a partner or have biological children. They also may still experience romantic attraction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bisexual<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bisexuality used to be considered people who are attracted to men and women, but it has expanded to include people who are romantically and\/or sexually attracted to people of more than one gender.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This allows for more gender inclusivity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Demisexual <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Demisexuality is on the asexuality spectrum. People who are demisexual typically only experience sexual attraction after they\u2019ve formed a strong emotional bond with someone. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fluid<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Sexuality can change over time. The term fluid gives language to that experience and space for people to explore their changing sexuality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gay<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

People who are gay experience romantic and\/or sexual attraction to people of the same gender.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even if someone appears to be gay, they may choose to use a different term like lesbian for women, or queer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gynesexual<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

People who are gynesexual, experience sexual feelings towards femininity in general. Gynesexual people may be attracted to cis women, as well as trans women, females, or feminity as a whole.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Heterosexual<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Also known as \u201cstraight\u201d. People who are heterosexual are attracted to people of the \u201copposite\u201d gender as them. Although typically thought of in the context of cis-gender, trans people may also identify as heterosexual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Homosexual<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

This term typically means people who are attracted to the same gender as them, however, it is outdated, and often considered offensive. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lesbian<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Women or females, no matter if they\u2019re cis-gendered or not, may use the term lesbian if they are attracted to people of the same or similar gender. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pansexual<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Pan means \u201call\u201d, and people who are pansexual may be romantically or sexually attracted to people of any gender or sexuality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Queer<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Although formally considered a derogatory term, many people in the LGBTQIA+ community have reclaimed the word as a broad umbrella term for anyone who isn\u2019t specifically cisgender or heterosexual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Questioning<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Someone who is \u201cquestioning\u201d is on a journey of exploring their sexuality and\/or gender.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sapiosexual<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

People who are sapiosexual generally experience attraction based on someone\u2019s intelligence. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Humans Aren\u2019t Cookie Cutters<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

This is not a definitive list of the many possibilities there are in the world of human sexuality. If you are curious to learn more, we invite you to do your own research. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you don\u2019t feel like you fit into one neat little box of sexual orientation \u2013 that\u2019s great! Welcome to the club. Humans are dynamic creatures, and so are our sexual and romantic preferences. Your sexuality can constantly evolve<\/a> and shift depending on your age, life circumstances, environment, and as you learn more about yourself and what you like.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now more than ever, the need to define sexuality can be thrown out the window. Having said that, sexual orientations can help create communities and support systems where they can lean on each other and thrive. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

No matter what your approach is to defining \u2013 or not defining \u2013 your sexuality, give yourself the grace to follow your heart and do what feels right for you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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