{"id":20661,"date":"2021-12-23T14:04:59","date_gmt":"2021-12-23T13:04:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/?p=20661"},"modified":"2022-01-03T10:43:38","modified_gmt":"2022-01-03T09:43:38","slug":"its-in-your-head-mindgasms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/its-in-your-head-mindgasms\/","title":{"rendered":"It\u2019s In Your Head: Mindgasms"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When we talk about getting more present in your sex life, we usually emphasize getting out of your head and into your body.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Increasing <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/give-yourself-the-gift-of-bodily-presence\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bodily presence<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is essential for feeling more pleasure and safety in your sex life. After you\u2019ve set the foundation of understanding how to become more present in your body, it makes sense to move back to the mind and integrate it into your sex life. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mind and body are one, there\u2019s no way to separate them, so how can you use your mind to create stronger feelings of connection and bliss? How can you use your mind to have more powerful orgasms? Is it possible to have an orgasm that starts and ends in the mind without ever touching other erogenous zones? <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let\u2019s find out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>What\u2019s a Mindgasm?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A mindgasm is an orgasm that is indeed all in your head. It\u2019s a way of inducing orgasm without ever touching other erogenous zones like the vulva, clitoris, nipples, or rectum. It\u2019s basically an orgasm without physical stimulation.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">study<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in the 1990s observed ten women that claimed to be able to have mental orgasms. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Researchers asked these women to pleasure themselves using only their minds, and the results were pretty astounding.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">During their hand-free self-pleasure sessions, researchers found that the women in the study had virtually the same physiological changes when they self-pleasured with their minds versus when they actually touched their genitals. They measured this by looking at their pupil diameter, blood pressure, heart rate, and pain threshold.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While you don\u2019t need a scientist to validate what you feel in your own body, for these women their mental orgasm experiences were confirmed through actual physical markers \u2013 that\u2019s pretty astounding!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>You Might Have Had a Mental Orgasm Before<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While mental orgasms are typically thought of as something that happens while you\u2019re awake, you might have experienced one before without even realizing it \u2013 while you were sleeping. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">About <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.webmd.com\/sex-relationships\/news\/20070614\/sex-dreams-equal-8-percent-of-adults-dreams\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">8%<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> of people\u2019s dreams are <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/are-you-having-sex-dreams\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sex dreams<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, no matter their gender. You\u2019ve most likely experienced one at one point in your life. If you\u2019ve ever had an orgasm in a sex dream, that my friend, is a kind of mental orgasm.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It might not be the same as being able to will and move your energy to orgasm while you\u2019re awake, but it does show you that you\u2019re capable of having an orgasm without touching your genitals.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>How Do You Have a Mindgasm?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This might all seem really cool in theory, but how do you actually have a mental orgasm? <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let\u2019s find out.\u00a0<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Approach with Curiosity: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is a practice in experimentation and staying curious. This is your body and your sexual practice, so have fun with it! While this can be done with a partner, it\u2019s helpful to try this practice by yourself at first. This doesn\u2019t have to look or be a certain way, if you feel intuitively led to find your own technique, then go right ahead!<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Tap Into Your Body: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It might seem counterintuitive, but you need to tap into your body in order to move your sexual energy in your head. There are so many ways to do this. Ask yourself when you feel the most present in your body. Is it when you take a shower or bath? When you\u2019re walking, dancing, or moving your body in another way? Is it when you\u2019re making art or creating something? Use your practices to tap into your body.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Connect with Your Breath: <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/the-healing-powers-of-breathwork\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Breathwork<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> practices and mindful breathing are another way to tap into your body and calm your nervous system so that you can tune into your sense of pleasure. Try inhaling deeply through your nose and imagine your breath moving through your heart, into your belly, and imagine filling up your pelvis with your breath. You can imagine that your breath is moving over your most sensitive zones, waking them up.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Kegels: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While this still involves engaging your vagina and vulva, you\u2019re not exactly touching it. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/kegels-for-beginners\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kegels<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, a form of pelvic floor exercise get your blood flow moving and can help you connect to your genitals while you engage your mind.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Use Your Imagination: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now use your mind to move your sexual energy and become more aroused. Think about what turns you on. You can imagine a certain kink, fantasy, or think of a hot sexual experience you\u2019ve had. You may even think of things that aren\u2019t typically thought of as sexual like time in nature or eating foods.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Let it Happen: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There\u2019s no one set way to have a mental orgasm. You have so much more power over your mind and your sexual sensations than you may realize.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>There\u2019s No Holy Grail of Orgasms<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As humans, we tend to want to rank and categorize things. To say that one way of doing things is better than another, especially if it seems more coveted or difficult to \u201cachieve.\u201d <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s not true when it comes to orgasms.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Having a mindgasm might feel like some sort of holy grail of orgasms, or that people who have had one are more evolved, but that\u2019s not the case. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sure it\u2019s really cool to be able to explore your body and your capacity for pleasure in new and novel ways, but it doesn\u2019t make you any better at sex or life if you can\u2019t or don\u2019t want to have a mental orgasm.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sex is a place for experimentation and fun, without putting pressure on yourself to achieve or have it look a certain way. This is your sex life, you get to decide how you want to navigate it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When we talk about getting more present in your sex life, we usually emphasize getting out of your head and into your body.\u00a0 Increasing bodily presence is essential for feeling&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":20663,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"inline_featured_image":false},"categories":[1,4],"tags":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v20.12 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>A Mental Orgasm - Truth or Myth?<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Sex is a place for experimentation and fun, without putting pressure on yourself to achieve or have it look a certain way.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/its-in-your-head-mindgasms\/\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Natasha Weiss\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"5 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/its-in-your-head-mindgasms\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/its-in-your-head-mindgasms\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"Natasha Weiss\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/#\/schema\/person\/b6c60ecf47ec06a36c4b2f175253c5ff\"},\"headline\":\"It\u2019s In Your Head: Mindgasms\",\"datePublished\":\"2021-12-23T13:04:59+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2022-01-03T09:43:38+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/its-in-your-head-mindgasms\/\"},\"wordCount\":964,\"commentCount\":1,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/#organization\"},\"articleSection\":[\"Women's Health\",\"Sexual Wellness\"],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"CommentAction\",\"name\":\"Comment\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/its-in-your-head-mindgasms\/#respond\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/its-in-your-head-mindgasms\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/its-in-your-head-mindgasms\/\",\"name\":\"A Mental Orgasm - 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