{"id":20944,"date":"2022-06-29T16:48:25","date_gmt":"2022-06-29T14:48:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/?p=20944"},"modified":"2022-06-30T15:29:53","modified_gmt":"2022-06-30T13:29:53","slug":"start-to-love-exercise","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/start-to-love-exercise\/","title":{"rendered":"Changing Your Mindset: With These 3 Tips You will Start to Love Exercise"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being in a human body is complicated. Sometimes we loathe the things that we know are good for us. Or we do them but develop weird relationships around them. We do this with things like eating well, resting, and of course \u2013 exercise.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Working out. We know<a href=\"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/working-out-with-your-menstrual-cycle\/\"> it\u2019s good for us.<\/a> Not just good for us, but necessary for a healthy body and mind. Regular physical activity offers so many benefits including, but definitely not limited to, hormone regulation, mood-boosting, better sleep, increased cardiovascular health, weight control, more energy, and potentially longer life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Since most of us aren\u2019t running around hunting, gathering, and doing all the things our ancestors did, we have to carve out time in our days to get the movement we need to be healthy. Especially if we\u2019re sitting in front of computers all day.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We can know all that but still might have a complicated relationship with exercise. We dread it, or overdo it, or can\u2019t find a routine that works. So how do you change your relationship with exercise so that you can be your best self? Let\u2019s find out.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Language Matters<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the first steps you can take to change your relationship with physical activity is actually a mental exercise. A language is a powerful tool. It shapes our reality, how we relate to others, and how we relate to ourselves. Changing the words you use when you talk to yourself can help you develop a different relationship with the subject at hand. Like exercise.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What words come to mind when you think about exercise? Are there a lot of \u201cshoulds\u201d, or \u201cI used to\u2026\u201d, phrases that feel limiting or make you feel down on yourself? Let\u2019s try to change that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can try shifting should statements like \u201cI should really work out today\u201d with something like \u201cI will feel great when I work out today\u201d or \u201cIt\u2019s important that I move my body today.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even the word exercise can be triggering for people, so how about trying something else? You don\u2019t have to use the word exercise when talking about physical activity, you can also try using something as simple as \u201cmovement\u201d. \u201cMy goal is to get some movement in today.\u201d This simple change can help take the pressure off you, and may expand your idea of what an acceptable form of physical activity is. Movement can mean walking, dancing, having sex. All of these things offer physical activity, even if they don\u2019t necessarily feel like \u201cexercise\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Focus on How You Feel<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Society and media have made it easy to have a distorted body image. So often exercise is approached with the idea of wanting to look a certain way, and that\u2019s ok. It\u2019s completely reasonable to want to change your body, but what if you changed your perspective a bit?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead of focusing on how you look, try focusing on how you feel. When you work out do you feel happier? More motivated? Energized? These are incredible rewards.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Focusing on how you feel also means you\u2019ll be less likely to be disappointed when you don\u2019t get results as fast as you want. When you have it in mind that exercise helps you feel better, you\u2019re more likely to keep doing it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can also try focusing on what other areas of life exercise can make better. When you get regular physical activity, are you a better partner or friend? Does it help you focus on your job or school? Do you feel happier overall? These are great incentives, and more sustainable than focusing on body image.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>It Doesn\u2019t Have to Be Hard<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you think of exercise, you might think of sportswear ads. People glistening sweat while pushing overtires with more abs than you knew were humanly possible. That\u2019s not the reality for most people.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Maybe you\u2019re a former or current athlete, or you\u2019re someone who enjoys really difficult forms of exercise \u2013 great. If not, also great. The thing with working out is that you have to meet yourself where you\u2019re at. Intense strength training is not for everyone. What kind of workouts can you add into your life that feels sustainable, and more importantly \u2013\u00a0fun?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s right, we said fun. Exercise can absolutely be enjoyable, it\u2019s better when it is! Think about when you were a kid. You might have run around, playing games, frolicking on the playground, getting so much movement in without putting much thought into why. All you knew is that you were having fun.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is there a form of physical activity that can bring you back to that state now? When it comes to physical activity, if you\u2019re having fun, you\u2019re more likely to keep doing it. You have something else driving you besides obligation.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Everyone\u2019s idea of fun is different, but here are some enjoyable forms of exercise:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dance class<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acro <a href=\"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/working-from-home-simple-yoga-tips-for-your-body-and-mind\/\">yoga<\/a><\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Adult sports like softball or soccer<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Boxing<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Walking while listening to an interesting podcast<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now make your own list. What sort of activities can you bring into your life or do more of that you enjoy? What forms of exercise make you feel good? When you shift your perspective, your whole life changes. Now get moving!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Being in a human body is complicated. Sometimes we loathe the things that we know are good for us. Or we do them but develop weird relationships around them. We&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":20947,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"inline_featured_image":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v20.12 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Working Out Doesn\u2019t Have to Be Hard<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Exercise can absolutely be enjoyable! Think about when you were a kid. 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