{"id":22115,"date":"2024-10-04T07:33:57","date_gmt":"2024-10-04T05:33:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/?p=22115"},"modified":"2024-10-04T07:34:14","modified_gmt":"2024-10-04T05:34:14","slug":"post-sex-depression","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/post-sex-depression\/","title":{"rendered":"Is Post-Sex Depression Normal?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have you ever felt sad or depressed immediately after having sex? Even if the sex was enjoyable with a partner you love and respect \u2013 your mood suddenly shifts post-coitus. This may also happen after you orgasm from solo masturbation. Rest assured, you\u2019re not alone.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>What Is Postcoital Dysphoria?<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Postcoital dysphoria (PCD), or postorgasm dysphoria, refers to feelings of depression and anxiety that spring up after sex without any specific cause. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While mental health professionals have only recently identified and labeled this condition, and a significant amount of research needs to be done before they are able to pin down exact reasons why it is so common for both males and females to experience unwanted emotions after sexual activity, there are some biological and environmental factors that have been correlated to the condition. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Psychological distress or <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">past trauma<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> may be part of the answer, but it must be emphasized that there are many people who experience postcoital dysphoria who don\u2019t have any history of sexual trauma.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Postcoital Dysphoria Is Not Depression<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Postcoital dysphoria refers specifically to unwanted emotions after having an orgasm, either from sex or masturbation. You may also know post-sex depression by colloquial terms such as post-orgasmic depression, post-nut syndrome, or post-sex blues. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Although the term \u201cdepression\u201d is often used to describe these distressing feelings after sex, postcoital dysphoria is different than depression \u2013 <strong>clinical depression is defined as having depressive symptoms every day for a minimum of two weeks, while postcoital dysphoria only happens after you orgasm. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, these conditions are not mutually exclusive, and you can be clinically depressed and also experience postcoital dysphoria.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Do I Have Postcoital Dysphoria?<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physicians and therapists can help diagnose postcoital dysphoria, but if you are experiencing significant distress, you don\u2019t need to wait for a diagnosis to seek help. If you think you have PCD, take a peek at the diagnostic criteria listed below:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Persistent disturbances in mood after sexual activity (alone or with a partner)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Disturbances in mood that are not attributed to any other medical condition or mental disorder<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The mood disturbances significantly impair key occupational, social or other areas of function, or result in large amounts of distress<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After the onset of the disturbance \u2013 i.e after your first orgasm, and the feelings arise \u2013 there is an inability to enjoy sex<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Along with the diagnostic criteria listed above, some common symptoms of postcoital depression include:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Crying<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Depression<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anxiety<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Aggression or irritation<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Guilt<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Regret<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Numbness<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Shame<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Emptiness<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Panic attacks<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Is Post Sex Depression More Common in Men or Women?<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While more common in women, both men and women experience post-coital dysphoria.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A common stereotype is that postcoital dysphoria is primarily a female problem. While postcoital dysphoria appears to express itself differently amongst the sexes, and is reported more often by women, it is common among both men and women. Research about this phenomenon is minimal, but medical professionals have drawn some general correlations. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>A key <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4721025\/%5C\"><b>2015 study<\/b><\/a><b> published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine noted that \u201cThere appears to be no relationship between PCD and intimacy in close relationships.\u201d <\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/31937518\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2020 study<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> found that women are more likely to experience feelings of sadness along with the mood shifts, while men are more likely to experience low energy with sadness. Women are more likely to experience postcoital dysphoria than men, with the percentage of women surveyed reporting symptoms ranging between <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4721025\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">8% and 46%<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and men aren\u2019t too far behind with a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/30040588\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">41% likelihood<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> of experiencing symptoms of PCD at some point throughout their lives.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Post-Coital Dysphoria Causes<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Again, further research is needed to learn more about the causes behind postcoital dysphoria, but there are a few potential reasons that researchers have come up with that could explain the onset of negative feelings following orgasm.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Hormonal Fluctuations<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you orgasm, your brain releases a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sites.tufts.edu\/emotiononthebrain\/2014\/11\/18\/postcoital-neurochemistry-the-blues-and-the-highs\/#:~:text=Prolactin%2C%20another%20hormone%2C%20surges%20right,of%20satiation%20and%20sexual%20gratification.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">surge<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> of \u201cpleasure\u201d hormones like dopamine, as well as \u201ccalming\u201d hormones like prolactin and oxytocin. However, since the oxytocin and prolactin (a dopamine inhibitor) are involved in curbing the wave of pleasure and inducing sexual satisfaction, it may result in sadness or a \u201ccrash.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Past Sexual Trauma<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Although PCD also occurs among people who haven\u2019t suffered sexual trauma, it is possible that past sexual trauma may be a contributing factor. People with sexual trauma may have lingering feelings of discomfort or guilt that they subconsciously relate with sex. These feelings may arise even if they&#8217;re masturbating or having consensual sex with a trusted partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>How To Deal with Post-Coital Dysphoria<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While speaking with your partner and establishing healthy communication and aftercare rituals may be a good first step, if these feelings are causing you significant distress, you should seek help from a mental health professional. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&#8217;re experiencing postcoital dysphoria and have a history of sexual trauma, it is highly recommended to seek professional help, as sex could be triggering past traumatic events. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sex can and should be a rewarding, pleasurable experience \u2013 whether it\u2019s with yourself or with partners \u2013 and it\u2019s important to be aware of your feelings, including PCD, in order to have the best possible experience.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever felt sad or depressed immediately after having sex? 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