{"id":3301,"date":"2014-02-14T20:34:12","date_gmt":"2014-02-14T12:34:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/?p=3301"},"modified":"2020-05-08T11:46:08","modified_gmt":"2020-05-08T09:46:08","slug":"bringing-a-vibrator-into-the-bedroom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.intimina.com\/blog\/bringing-a-vibrator-into-the-bedroom\/","title":{"rendered":"Bringing a Vibrator into the Bedroom"},"content":{"rendered":"

We’ve all heard the myth that men are deeply threatened by their girlfriend\u2019s vibrators. However, recent studies have smashed that stereotype, finding that not only do nearly half of all Americans\u2014male and female\u2014use vibrators during sex, but 70% of men say they have no problem with their partners using intimate massagers. Introducing a vibrator into your relationship can be an exciting way to boost feelings of intimacy and pleasure, though broaching the subject can be a bit daunting. Here are our top tips for starting the discussion with your partner<\/p>\n

Communicate<\/b><\/h3>\n

As in all areas of a relationship, being open and honest with your partner is paramount. Talk to him about exactly why you want to bring a vibrator into the bedroom. Does it turn you on? Or do you want to add a little spice to your relationship? Be specific about your desires and make sure your partner knows that a vibrator isn\u2019t a replacement, but an addition to the relationship.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not comfortable sitting down and having a direct conversation about it, find other ways bringing them up. Mention seeing it in a magazine or just happen to be watching a segment on the latest sex toys. Or, the next time you go shopping together just happen to stroll through the intimate area of the drug store. You don\u2019t have to have the conversation all at once, you\u2019re allowed to take it slow.<\/p>\n

Shop Together<\/b><\/h3>\n

Part of the fun and excitement of something new is the anticipation and feeling of closeness as you look for it together. Look for something that is versatile and can bring you both pleasure. Buying the massager together also makes it \u201cour toy\u201d instead of just \u201cmy toy\u201d, it becomes something that can connect you two and build stronger intimacy in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Start Simple, Small and Attractive<\/b><\/h3>\n

There are a lot of options out there, many of which can be quite intimidating\u2014and not just for him. Your vibrator together should be something you\u2019re both comfortable with, something that pleases you both with more than just vibrations. Look for a \u00a0vibrator that is:<\/p>\n