O-M-G-Spot: What’s the Deal with G-Spot Orgasms?

Dec 072017
 

gspot_orgasmNamed for German gynecologist Ernsy Gräfenberg, the mere existence of the G-spot is the subject of some speculation, but we’re not here to debate. Nay, we’re skipping right to the climax – the G-spot orgasm.

The Big G

Female orgasms have a whole host of physical and mental benefits, and are pretty darn fascinating. But just as no two women are the same, no two orgasms are alike either. G-spot orgasms are heralded as the sexual equivalent of an Olympic gold medal; more powerful and intense than clitoral orgasms. Achieving this sexual goal is all about exploring your body and what feels good to you.

Unlike their clitoral counterparts, G-spot orgasms occur through internal stimulation. The G “spot” is in fact is an area –  approximately the size of an American nickel (about 2 cm in diameter) located 2 to 3 inches (5 to 7 cm) inside the vagina on the anterior – frontal – wall from the vaginal opening. It should feel slightly rougher than the rest of the vaginal canal.

A G-spot orgasm will feel a little different for everyone, but it’s usually described as having a slower build and being less intense than a clitoral orgasm, but lasting longer.

Getting There

Even if you’re not able to reach orgasm during partnered sex from penetration alone, that doesn’t mean a G-spot spot orgasm is beyond your reach. Because our bodies are all different – as are those of our partners – it’s possible you won’t be able to stimulate it exactly the right way during penetrative sex.

The method that most people find successful is direct contact of pointer and middle fingers to the G-spot, either with an upward alternating pressure or with a ‘come-hither’ motion if you have someone assisting you with this climactic endeavour.

To make things a little easier, however, we recommend using a massager specifically designed for G-spot stimulation like Celesse. It’s subtly curved body and focused tip make it the perfect tool for the job- not to mention that it doesn’t get tired in the way that your partner’s hands might!

The other benefit to using a G-spot massager like Celesse to explore your orgasm potential is that it allows you to better figure out exactly what pressure and motion will work for you, while also removing some of the ‘performance anxiety’ you may have if a partner is present.

When holding Celesse,  angle your wrist downward so the head pushes against the ‘roof’ your vagina until it hits your G-spot (this is where first locating it with your fingers can help).  You can try applying steady pressure or ‘rocking’ the massager like a seesaw to alternate it; this will likely be more pleasurable than an in and out motion, but try that too!

Better Together: Blended Orgasms

It’s possible that however pleasurable G-spot stimulation is, it may not bring you to climax – and that’s okay!  Some women struggle to have an orgasm at all, and only 30% of women can reach orgasm from penetration alone, so it’s no big deal if you require a little external attention! Besides, sexual satisfaction is so much more about the journey than the destination, but if you find yourself getting frustrated, you can always discover the delight that is the blended orgasm.

A blended orgasm is simply an orgasm that is brought on by stimulating more than one erogenous zone of the body at once. It’s more common iteration is when you stimulate both the clitoris and G-spot at once  – hence why rabbit-style vibrators are so popular – but you can also just use your hand or another small external vibe to take your pleasure over the top!

Happy hunting, and remember: G marks the spot!

 

Please note that advice offered by Intimina may not be relevant to your individual case. For specific concerns regarding your health, always consult your physician or other licensed medical practitioners.

Here's What to Expect From Your First STI Test

Here’s What to Expect From Your First STI Test

Chlamydia and gonorrhea and crabs, oh my! Getting your first STI test can feel scary on so many levels. As if anxiously waiting for the results isn’t nerve-wracking enough, you’re forced to don a paper hospital gown and sit in a sterile-white room surrounded by shiny medical implements until that fateful moment when the nurse [...]

Read more »

6 Things I Wish I Had Known About Sex When I Was Younger

Sex and sexual relationships at any stage in the game can be tough. But like anything, the more you do it, the better you get at it. There is also a level of confidence that comes with age. You are more aware of you are as a person, know your limits (hopefully), and also what [...]

Read more »

How to Stress-Proof Your Sex Without Overhauling Your Life

Orgasms are nature’s little stress relievers. They’re absolutely free, available in unlimited quantities, and they do all sorts of fun things to our brains that make us happy. After a harrowing day of battling traffic, the office, and family drama with the kids or the in-laws, there’s nothing like a quick boost of serotonin and [...]

Read more »

period_sex

Surfing the Crimson Tide: Everything You Need to Know About Period Sex

Relationships with and attitudes toward periods are complicated beasts. You might be mildly annoyed by them, mystified by their exact mechanics, grossed out by them, feel like they worsen body dysmorphia, or use them to make ritualistic sacrifices to the gods so the aphids will stay out of your cherry tomatoes. Whatever the case, when [...]

Read more »

sex_drive_low_normal

Don’t Believe the Hype – Why Your Sex Drive is Totally Normal

Feel less than in-sync in the sack? You’re far from alone. Mismatched sexual desires are responsible for splitting up even the most otherwise in-love couples. A study by the Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin reported that 39% of men and 27% of women would break up with their partner over a libido that didn’t match [...]

Read more »

best_sex_workout

Let’s Get Physical: Exercises that Make Sex Better

There are plenty of health and wellness reasons to hit the gym – or go power walking or take Tai Chi or try rock climbing – which include how great the rush of endorphins caused by exercise will make you feel. Well, we happen to know another activity that tends to cause a flow of [...]

Read more »

masturbation_tips

7 Ways to Shake Up Your Self-Love Life

Every woman needs a bit of self lovin’ every now and then – after all, it’s a great way to connect with your own body and de-stress –  but it can be easy to get stuck in a bit of a rut. Once you find your preferred way to rock your socks off or get [...]

Read more »

painful_sex

From “Oh!” to “Ouch!” – Causes of Painful Sex

Life is full of little pains and stressors. If there’s one place where stress and pain should melt away, it’s in the bedroom. Sensual pleasure is one of the few free, healthy rewards we can give ourselves and our partners, but when sex becomes the cause of pain, our mental and physical states can suffer. [...]

Read more »

Masturbation-Myths-Debunked

4 Female Masturbation Myths We Can Finally Ditch

Sex education is trending, periods are going eco-friendly, and sex toys are practically mainstream. We’re really lucky to live in a time when we can finally see women’s sexual health making huge, fast strides forward. However, not everyone has easy access to accurate information on sexual wellness, especially on sensitive and personal topics like masturbation. [...]

Read more »

Clitoris-101-Everything-You-Need-to-Know

The Clitoris and its Hidden Depths: More Than Just A Love Button

Oh the clitoris, that wonderful button, bean, pearl, woman in a boat or whatever you want to call it. So many names for something many of us don’t really understand. Ask a women to draw the clitoris and she will probably draw a bit of a squiggle at the top of a pair of lips. [...]

Read more »

  • Sign Up. It's Rewarding!
  • Join our newsletter list today.
  • Enjoy 10% off your first order.
  • *Email address
  •  Birthday
  • *Required field
      View our terms and conditions
INTIMINA uses cookies to improve our service to the customer. By continuing to browse our site, you agree to our use of cookies detailed here . ACCEPT