Masturbation Manifestation

Sexual Wellness | | Natasha Weiss
5 min read

Some years ago, I was getting lunch with a fierce friend, and no surprise here, we were talking about masturbation. 

She told me about a practice that she does called “masturbation manifestation.” Describing the process to me, I sat wide-eyed, fascinated and intimidated, as I was still learning how to tap into my own sexual power and confidence.

I listened intently, clinging to every word, with the last sentence still ringing in my head to this day “Think about it, when you have an orgasm, that is one of the most intense sensations we can experience as humans. Now imagine using that energy and injecting it into whatever you’re trying to manifest.”

Check Your Privilege 

Let’s address one thing before we get into the dirty details – manifestation is a weird term that can come loaded with all sorts of privilege, and honestly makes me cringe at times. 

But there is something to putting an intense amount of energy into a dream, wish, or desire, and watching what happens. We all have goals and things we want out of life, so why not use every tool at our disposal to try and reach those goals?

The Power of Creation 

While this concept comes laced with heteronormativity, sex is an act of creation. Even if it’s not explicitly making another human, sex is an artistic act, and act of connection, an act of transcendence, and sometimes just plain old fun. 

To create something, no matter what it is, it takes a certain amount of energy to propel that thing forward. Hence why masturbation manifestation is such a powerful tool.

Get Witchy with It

While sex can absolutely be magical with another person (or more), it’s just as powerful by yourself. In fact, all you have to focus on is me, myself, and I. Without the distraction of another human around – as pleasurable as that may be, you can put all that sweet orgasmic energy into whatever it is you’re trying to create in your life. 

Is this all feeling pretty woo-woo to you? No worries! If the words “inject all your energy into it”, “manifest your wildest dreams”, and “create sex magic” make you feel like you got lost in a deck of tarot cards, just take from this what resonates with you. 

Create Your Practice

Alright, are you feeling inspired to let those *ahem* juices flow and cultivate your creativity? 

To my fellow masturbation manifestors; any practice you create on your own is awesome. It’s your sex life after all. But if you’re wondering just how to create one, here’s an idea of how to get into the zone. 

Create The Space

Any sort of practical magic requires a setting of the scene before getting into the nitty-gritty of it. 

First off, you want to be somewhere where you feel comfortable having sex with yourself. This depends on your privacy levels. Maybe you need music or white noise to block out roommates or street sounds – great, go for that!

What else do you do to set the mood and get into a ritualistic space? Are you a candle fan? Lover of incense? Like to set the stage with vases overflowing with flowers? Beautiful! If you’re going to use some sex toys, be sure to have those handy. This is your sexy space, and you get to decide what it looks and feels like. 

Set your Intentions

You’ve got your space set, your fire is burning, now it’s time to zero in. What is it you’re dreaming of?

It can be something tangible like a promotion, a new home, or your dream high waisted jeans you’ve been scouring every thrift store for. It can also be new energy, an epiphany or deeper understanding of a situation. Whatever it is, this is your practice, just get specific with it.

Now write it down, in your journal or on a piece of paper that you bury or burn. Write into existence what you’re dreaming of.

Make Some Magic

This of course is the hot and heavy portion of the practice. Where you get down to the actual masturbating. I’m not going to tell you what to do here, after all, you know your body best. I will, however, give you some pointers. 

  • Take your time. Let this orgasmic energy build slowly, and feel it start to swirl and rise through every part of your body.
  • Keep breathing. Stay connected to your breath through deep belly breathing. This helps with the slowing down, and keeping you grounded and focused on your vision. 
  • You don’t need to come. Say it again for the people in the back! Orgasms are not necessary to do this practice. As awesome as they are, orgasms don’t come easily to everyone, especially if you’re stressed or under pressure. If you don’t orgasm, no worries, allow yourself to stay present in the pleasure, and just enjoy the sensations as they come.  

The Bottom Line

All witchcraft and manifestation aside, orgasms make you feel good. Masturbation can increase your confidence, and make you glow from the inside out.

Call it sex magic, or just call it being practical, but the better you feel, the more smooth life is. The more fluidly you can move through life, the easier things may come to you. You’ll feel more secure in asking for your needs, in pushing the creative envelope and pursuing your goals. 

Not that you need an excuse to masturbate (like ever!), but there are few things more attractive than a person who knows how to please themselves and can own it!

18 thoughts on “Masturbation Manifestation

  • Jawuan says:

    Do i burn the piece of paper before or after the ritual ?

  • jo says:

    is it okay to watch something to get there

  • Jane says:

    As someone who has just started on my sexual journey, this was so reassuring and supportive:D

    • Joi Cheek says:

      If you watch something to.get there (porn or magazines) aren’t you focusing more on the images rather than what your trying to manifest..

      • Alberto says:

        I heard that when you get to the point of no return meaning when you feel that you are goin to ejaculate then switch the focus to whatever you want to manifest.

  • Ray Peters says:

    Alberto…. You Are Absolutely 1000% Percent Accurate With Your Post Statement. Surprisingly, I’ve Been Doing This For The Longest And Didn’t Know I Was Doing Sex Magic The Entire Time. It’s Garanteed That You Will Manifest What You Consistently Envision, Trust Me It Works For Me But When it Actual Unfolds In Front Of You, It Is SO SUBTLE & INCOGNITO, That You Will Be second Guessing Yourself With A Smirk On Your Face…And Depending On Your Concentration Power Level The Sooner It Will Appear. I just Wouldn’t Abuse This Particular Magic Ritualistic Spell Casting Though, Meaning For Malevolent Intentions.

  • Muniz says:

    Can this method of manifestation be used to heal disease or illness and/or health conditions?

    • Intimina says:

      Hi Muniz,

      absolutely not. Western medicine has a lot of different tests and treatments for different diseases, so if you suffer from one please visit your doctor and ask for advice.
      Orgasms make you feel good. Masturbation can increase your confidence, and it can only make you glow from the inside out.

      Good luck!

  • Rick says:

    Can you write/ manifest more than one thing while masturbation? I have 5 goals I’m trying to reach in my lifetime. Or should you do it one at a time?

  • Crystal says:

    @rick 1 at a time so each Goal can get your full focus and more likely manifest rather than splitting your concentration amongst 5 different things & it not getting enough concentration to actually manifest

  • Mohamad Reza Ariai Rad says:

    It’s Okay, But If you watch something like porn pictures, it’s mean you focusing more on “that” images, rather than what your trying to manifest. Agree? or please explain it more. Thx

  • Luke says:

    Can you manifest a person back into your life?? Like say your wife who you’ve been in separation with?

  • Mark says:

    Technically yes but it might be best not to. Universe/God allowed separation for a reason, a reason likely for your best life.
    Try this when trying to manifest SP: focus on what qualities about that person make you desire her and trust universe/God to bring that same energy in the best package at the best time.

  • Jess says:

    I did this b4 read’n this article… I took a Pic of the person and Look’d at it, when I was Climax’n I said His Name and my intentions… I’m not Burn’n it. I put it back in my “Journal” with my Affirmations… until I do it again

  • Plug of the century says:

    The world is a huge place it’s freeing to connect with mutual aligned spirits that seek and understand the same vision. Nothing’s impossible; manifestation has to prerequisites:not to take anything away and bring any harm! Thanks for the inspirational questions and answers.

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