Are You Doing Kegels Wrong? 8 Kegel Mistakes and Tips to Improve

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This article was medically fact-checked by Consultant Obstetrician and Gynaecologist Dr. Shree Datta.

Kegels are one of the most important exercises a woman can do to protect her intimate health at every age.  They tone and strengthen your pelvic floor muscles, which are responsible for supporting your uterus, bladder, and bowel and helping you maintain control over urination and bowel movements.

They’re also crucial to a healthy pregnancy, childbirth, and postpartum recovery. That’s a huge job for one set of muscles! However, many women don’t get the full benefits of their exercises because they don’t know how to do Kegels the right way.

Research presented in the book The Treatment of the Postmenopausal Woman says that it has been shown that up to 40% of women who received verbal instructions were unable to perform Kegel contractions sufficiently.  So, to help you get the most out of every Kegel, we’ve created a list of the most common Kegel mistakes and the simple solutions to help you avoid them.

1) Be Sure to do it Correctly 

This is an important one: correct Kegel exercises do not involve tensing the abdomen, buttocks, or thighs. Instead, you should find a comfortable position that allows you to isolate and contract the pelvic floor: a motion of squeezing and lifting your anus, urethra, and vagina, the rest of your body should be relaxed.

Take time to learn how to do a correct Kegel exercise before you start training. There are many resources for how to find and use your Kegel muscles—you could even ask your gynecologist to help you at your next appointment. Don’t be embarrassed about it, Kegels are extremely important and your doctor should be happy to teach you.

2) Incorrect Form

Another common mistake is to bear down or strain the pelvic floor as if having a bowel movement. This is not only incorrect, but it can also increase abdominal pressure and the risk of damaging your pelvic floor muscles—the opposite of what you want. Make sure you’re contracting inwards and upwards—it should feel similar to the sensation of stopping urination midstream or holding in gas.

3) No Variety

Your pelvic floor muscles are actually made up of 2 different types of muscle fibers: fast-twitch and slow-twitch.  Fast-twitch fibers allow your muscles to react quickly to an increase in pressure – like when you cough or sneeze –while slow-twitch fibers are for the long-term support of your pelvic organs.

Unsurprisingly, these different types of fibers need different types of exercise (Kegels are not the only one). To fully strengthen your entire pelvic floor and get the most out of every workout, your routine should consist of both quick contraction/release exercises and strong contractions held for a longer count.

4) Following the Wrong Routine

In addition to exercising the two different muscle types, it’s important to follow a routine with the right number of contractions for your strength level during each session. Ideally, your routine should increase in difficulty as your strength improves—but it can be difficult to know when that happens. If you’re unsure how to do pelvic floor exercises, you can always take a look on YouTube, but please, talk with a physiotherapist first!

Doing too few contractions won’t be effective and doing too many can cause fatigue or even pain from overusing those muscles. Using an intelligent Kegel exerciser that automatically determines the routine for you can help you complete the right number and combination of contractions every session. That way you won’t have to worry about figuring out the right routine for you. Using one of these innovative FemTech devices can show measurable results in only twelve weeks. It’s also vital to pay attention to how you feel during the routine, Kegel exercise should never cause pain – if it does you should see a doctor help you adjust your technique.

 5) Not Measuring Progress

With any type of exercise, it’s important to measure your results. People who are able to see their improvement—whether in the form of weight loss or increased muscle tone—are more motivated to keep exercising. This can be especially important when strengthening your pelvic floor; because you can’t exactly see your muscle tone improving as you do Kegels. Integrating a pelvic floor exerciser into your routine and monitoring symptoms in conjunction with this is the best way to gauge your progress.

This kind of Kegel device continuously checks your pelvic floor strength and gives you feedback, encouraging you to keep exercising and reach your intimate health goals. It’s also important to note that for some people maintenance and preventative care are just as important as actively improving pelvic floor health. Pelvic floor exercises are key for preventing deterioration. Looking at PFEs from this viewpoint, allows people to see them as part of maintaining their overall physical health.

6) Forgetting to relax

Contracting your pelvic floor muscles will help you control your muscles and build strength, but the conscious relaxation of those muscles is just as important. Not releasing your contractions fully can overwork and over-tighten those muscles, possibly leading to pelvic pain and discomfort.

Your ability to relax those muscles is especially helpful during childbirth, it can make it easier for the baby to move through the birth canal and lessen the chance of vaginal tearing.  Make sure you’re fully releasing after every squeeze for the most effective session possible.

7) Not Being Consistent

All exercise requires consistency to see improvement, and strengthening your pelvic floor is no exception. Setting aside a regular time for your exercises can make it much more likely you’ll keep up with the routine and do each contraction correctly. Take 5 minutes for yourself each day and complete your routine.

As soon as you wake up in the morning is an ideal time, since your pelvic floor muscles are well-rested. You’ll be surprised at how easy it is to stick to your routine if you just schedule in a little “me time” for your Kegels. It’s easy to Kegel exercises when you have a handful of spare minutes.

8) Giving Up Before Seeing Results

Many women start doing Kegel exercises expecting immediate results, however—as with all exercises—it takes around 12 weeks to notice a real change. Once you do start seeing the difference though, it’s life-changing—so don’t give up!

Whether you’ve been doing Kegels for years or are just getting started, it’s always good to make sure you’re doing them correctly. If you have been making any of these mistakes, don’t worry, you’re definitely not alone. Take your time and make sure you’re getting the most out of every single squeeze.

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Facts checked by:

Dr. Shree Datta

Dr. Shree Datta

Dr. Shree Datta is a Consultant Obstetrician and Gynaecologist in London, specialising in women’s health including all menstrual problems such as fibroids and endometriosis. Dr. Shree is a keen advocate for patient choice, having written numerous articles and books to promote patient and clinician information. Her vision resonates with INTIMINA, with the common goals of demystifying periods and delivering the best possible care to her patients

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20 thoughts on “Are You Doing Kegels Wrong? 8 Kegel Mistakes and Tips to Improve

  • Raksh says:

    Can i do these kegel exercises during my period?

  • K fran says:


    I believe i have a tight pelvic floor which causes me discomfort and i am unable to empty my bladder.

    Would the kegal device help relax my pelvic floor?

    • Intimina says:

      Hi K fran,

      thank you for this question, but we are sure your doctor will give you the best answer to this question.

      Best regards,

  • Kat says:

    I was supposed to have a one year warranty with your Kegel Exerciser and went to the website to register and am unable to find where you register the product. Any suggestions?

  • Leoni pillay says:

    Can holding the muscle under tension for a long period of time and then releasing it with a cough or hard long pee , give me orgasms. All the time with controlled low shallow breathing

    • Intimina says:

      Hi Leoni,

      we can not answer this question, every body is different so is yours. Maybe you can, maybe you can not. It is up to your senses.

      Best regards

  • Maria Diedericks says:

    Hi doc I am Maria since my baby both in 2018 I e been struggling to do Kegels and it feels my vagina is loose don’t know how to tighten it

  • Christine says:

    Post menopausal and feeling a bulge within my vagina, not painful or noticeable until intercourse when it is painful. I have had vaginal bleeds checked by a gynaecologist/biopsy and everything is clear. Would doing these exercises help?

    • Intimina says:

      Hi Christine,

      thank you for your message, but this is a question for your doctor. Kegel exercises are very useful for many conditions, but we are not sure are they good for this one. Please ask your doctor and you can let us know what they said.

      Have a great day

  • Rosy Armitage says:

    When you do Kegels, should you be squeezing all the muscles as hard as you can? Someone once told me you can overdo them if you do them too hard. What percentage of your effort should you use?

  • morena.may says:

    NOT MEASURING PROGRESS – Why Morena you dumby, why?

  • Heather says:

    I seem to be able to contract the ball upwards but it won’t drop back down, I give the string a little yank and it gets back to starting position, but can you help me understand why it’s not releasing when I relax. Thank you.

    • Intimina says:

      Well, Heather,

      it is very hard to say it like this. But it seems like you need to relax your muscles more when the ball goes down. Or just to push a bit like you already do. It is great that you can contract it upwards. That says a lot about your muscle strength.

      Maybe you can ask your doctor to get more info if there is something wrong with the exercises that you do?

      Have a great day

  • Brenda says:

    Hi, I’m retired but have difficulty holding on when I need to pee. I had a hysterectomy age 41yrs but have been told not to do pfe exercises because it can be dangerous?

    • Intimina says:

      Hi Brenda,

      so sorry to hear that.

      If you have been told not to do exercises, then please do not. Your condition is specific, please listen to your doctor.

      Have a nice day

  • Naomi says:

    Can you use the Lasselle and the Kegle Smart when you’re pregnant?

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